Alexander (2004) Scripts #4
Posted: Thu Nov 07, 2024 9:53 pm
Doesn't Renault refer to Alexander as the 'boy'?
that interesting. what in the sources makes you believe the most that Hepaestion was the boy?
If I remember rightly, it was the soldiers in Fire from Heaven who referred to Alexander as 'boy', though in an affectionate, not derogatory way. But I was thinking of the episode in The Persian Boy where Hephaestion ruffles Alexander's hair and Bagoas, secretly watching, thinks something along the lines, you make him a boy, but I will make him a man.
Alexander's known liking for boys, Curtius's Euxenippus statement, Epictetus's statement quoted by Aristotle about Alexander's 'loved one'. We cannot know what went on behind closed doors, but there is perhaps an unspoken assumption in the sources that Alexander, as king, cannot have been ruled by anyone else. If there was any hint of this in their public relationship, it would weaken Alexander's position as king, and this is why we don't really know anything definite about their relationship. I also think that this is why Hephaestion was very careful not to be seen to be dictating to, or exerting control over Alexander vis. your reference to Curtius. He was also, I think, protecting himself and not wishing to be seen to be too arrogant or too powerful in determining Alexander's policies.
Either because they didn't know for definite, or maybe more probably, they didn't think it was that important, especially if they were no longer lovers beyond what was considered acceptable for young men. So long as the relationship wasn't scandalous and Hephaestion wasn't taking advantage of his relationship with Alexander, and Alexander wasn't giving him preferment that he didn't deserve, there wasn't really anything to reproach him with.